HE LOVED not only his music and his family but Guam as well, and now Joe “Uncle Tote” Cunningham has graduated to another chapter of his life.

Cunningham died just before the weekend at the age of 66. News of his passing affected all who were close to him or who knew him through his music, the group Marianas Homegrown, or when he was a radio personality on KUAM 610.

“Like everybody else, I agree that he’s absolutely an icon for Guam. He’s been such a well-rounded entertainer, a musician, radio announcer; then he got into television and videography. He was always really a creative positive person. He’s had so many friends and he’s really genuine,” said longtime friend Cindy “Sister Cindy” Hanson. “In the 20 years I’ve known him, I’ve never seen him upset or in a bad mood about anything. He could take a situation and a find a positive in it.”

What also stands out for her is Uncle Tote’s love for his three children, Trey, Brandon and Lindsey. Hanson said Uncle Tote was always there for them growing up.

To celebrate Uncle Tote’s life, Hanson said they are hosting a “graduation party” this Sunday at Jeff’s Pirates Cove starting at 2 p.m.

“He was very clear that he didn’t want a funeral and that he wanted a big party, so we’re just trying to make it the biggest party ever and even have an open mic so people can get up and share favorite stories about Tote and funny memories ... I’m sure we’ll laugh and cry and have a good time.”

Cunningham made local history when former President Bill Clinton visited Guam and he sang the U.S. national anthem in Chamorro. While some were shocked, others applauded him. He’s also known for roller-blading up and down Marine Corps Drive during the Liberation Day Parade with his camera and smiling at everyone he passed by. Cunningham’s voice can also be heard on a variety of commercials he produced and wrote for companies.

Two years ago in February, he got together with his friends and former bandmates of Marianas Homegrown for the first concert they’ve had in several years, thanks to Patchwork Industries.

During an interview with the Variety at the time, Cunningham reflected about not living in the past. “Particularly because those of us involved are first person witness to the debauchery,” he said jokingly.

Hanson said she and Cunningham’s friends are also working on bringing out Uncle Tote’s sister Cindy to Guam for the party. They are currently raising money and anyone who would like to make a donation can do so via PayPal at This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it or send to Uncle Tote’s “Ditching the Mortal Molecules” Fund at P.O. Box 2583, Hagåtña, GU 96932.

Meanwhile, friends and family who live off-island can watch the graduation party via live webcam at Jeff's website.